I am a Jewish and anti-Zionist student conflicted about maintaining friendships with Zionist peers. Most Zionist friends I grew up with distanced themselves or stopped speaking to me after October 7th, when I became more outspoken about my political views. I am still friends with a few Zionists but increasingly uncertain about how to navigate these relationships.
My friends are good people, I want to believe, but their Zionism clouds my certainty—especially after two years of Israel’s actions in Gaza, which I describe as genocide. This raises a difficult question: should I let go of my Zionist friends as many of them have let go of me?
"My friends are good people, I want to believe, but their Zionism taints my certainty of that — especially after two years of Israel’s genocide in Gaza."
Why do our friends' beliefs matter so much? Simply put, a friend is someone with whom we share a relationship founded on mutual affection. When political beliefs deeply conflict, this foundation can become unstable.
Balancing personal bonds and political convictions is a challenging dilemma that requires honesty with oneself and others.
Author's summary: Navigating friendships amid political divides tests trust and shared values, highlighting the difficulty of reconciling personal affection with deep ideological differences.